These past few years have been rough for all of us, to say the least. It’s getting even rougher as resistance to the inevitable upcoming changes will affect all of us and is exhausting at times. However, it is understandable as change was never taken well by general public. I have worked years in Human Resources and know that change is fought and resisted passionately in general. Sad actually, as there are very well reasons why there is a hierarchy [identified powers] in place in business as well as all our teams in life. If people would or could accept their role in that team environment and cooperate, then the system would function smoothly. Regretfully it isn’t that simple. Specially in today’s world. People have gotten false beliefs and continue to challenge that team dynamic in general. That itself is the most damaging flaw that we as a nation must overcome if we are to see any success in our existence as humanity.
To elaborate even more on how these flaws are infesting within our communities, groups, government, and anything else, just see the upsetting oppositions between groups that are causing division. I personally spent much time behind my laptop, researching and reading. In doing that, I have noticed the comments from resisting groups who are very angry about these changes. Yes, these changes are narrowing gaps for indecencies and inappropriate behaviors for perpetrators. But they have to understand that we live in a democracy and liberal world. Powers are set based on logic. Not based on falsely presented facts to benefit bullying groups. Animal behaviors exerted by those who have had powers is simply unjust and uncalled for in today’s world. We cannot consciously give ourselves the okay to judge and challenge anything that is against one’s values. The greater good is more important.
A black and white example is our gun laws. Yes, in America guns have been assessed as our rights. However, with all the violence we are experiencing today, it must be reformed to accommodate/overcome today’s challenge . Yet, there are so many groups that cannot agree on that and will passionately fight and argue and if needed maliciously use/abuse their powers to get their points across to ensure this amendment remains as it was assessed as our rights! Really? These groups are insisting that we maintain this law as it is and advocates even more guns among us so that we can protect ourselves. The other day the News was showing teacher receiving military training and schools are to be armed now. Great! What is the mission? To get our people even more violent and agitated? Are we to be on guard now according to those people, believing that an armed world is a place to exist? So wrong. I would have to live in such a volatile world, always on guard. OMG! We have to kindly understand that we must reform our systems to make it work for us and not adopt more and more of combative behaviors.
Another huge one is the shift of powers between men and women. Our men despite logically expressing their compassion, wanting to cooperate, to make the world a better place for all genders, are acting upset in all walks of life. This too goes back to humanity automatically resisting/opposing change. Just look at our history! Great innovations were battled and denied and people who introduced them were initially prosecuted just to stand our ground in our wrong belief systems.
Sure, men have gotten away all these years with being adored and being given powers to run like a bull into the china shop, not really thinking that these damaging behaviors have a ripple effect throughout their immediate communities and society in large. Despite the light that has been shined on these ugly behaviors through recent uproars, we are, however, collectively at fault. Because we allowed these behaviors for years to manifest and now it is a second nature to them. Logic wants them to cooperate, but learned belief systems will motivate them to fight changes with all their powers. As a Life Coach, I know reform/change of deeply embedded conditioning is a lot of work. Yet only hard work can and will lead to success.
Embracing change, that includes the shift of powers, is the only way to ensure our continuance. My biggest wish/dream is that we all one day soon are able to grow/evolve on that fact. I did and can testify that it is liberating to embrace change. The wisdom of Taoism, a Chinese religion, tells us that we must learn to be flexible in life in order to flow with the needs of our times. Remember change is inevitable!
Never ever forget that planting a seed in any area of your life that matters to you requires hope. Hope includes trust and believe, as we are nothing in this wide universe. Scary and dis-empowering thoughts that drive one to feel crazy, disconnected, damaged, hopeless, to be forced into adopting corruption, believing it to be the only way of existence. Drove me nuts and still does at times! Practice, however, makes the master. So naturally I am getting better at managing myself. We have the choice. I now know/feel that divine powers do exist. We are born on a day and die someday. What we do while we are journeying matters. Every single interaction, thoughts, reactions, sayings, doings translate into energies. That’s a powerful spiritual wisdom that must be adopted and practiced if we want to succeed. One has always the opportunity to start from NOW. To possibly succeed in life, the first step is that we must believe, know that planting a seed is next, and of course cautiously nourish it in hopes of it doing well and resulting in something worth to be proud of someday. We have done it and we can do it again. It was with that hope that anybody accomplished anything good in life. Just witness and actively partake in your environment rather than shying away. It is our only hopeful way of continuance. It is not guaranteed. However, only doing good could result in good.
The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Lao Tzu
Anne Frank wrote in her famous diary, “How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.”
Do not be fooled by advertisement nor media nor intimidated by power craving individuals nor by your own demons that continue to deny the existence of divine powers nor voices that keep you captivated/imprisoned/limited in your world. Remain focused on your mission. Hope does exist and so do all our blessings. That’s not a delusion. However, one must dare to tackle all and any areas/characters in life to have any chance of progression. Don’t be afraid of consequences. As we know only taking risks will force growth and progress but we must speak the truth with love or tough love that could result in a positive outcome. But do believe as divine powers that are wanting us all to succeed exist. You can tell if you pay attention. Know that only the truth will heal you.
To plant any seed, you must believe and trust first. Trick your mind. It can be done as I can testify that it works. What are the actions that have always helped me are to view all and any interaction, circumstances, or situation with love and compassion. I know it won’t work immediately. However, it will eventually if you insist on tricking your mind and heart to always have good intentions, act in love, starting now. If you want to ever accomplish anything in life, believe, develop hope, plant your seeds, deeply appreciate and respect the laws of nature which are love and now. I promise you will always succeed as a guiltless mind sets you free. Know always that your sayings, doings, actions or reactions must be in alignment with love and now, not assumptions based on one’s believe and not in the past. You may dream of a brighter future. It is the seed of hope. Aim for it.
In contrary to my believe system thus far, I was not a fan of organized religion. However, how stupid of me to think that I am the mighty one who is the sole driver of my life. The truth is that we must encompass all resources, including us as well as all other blessings to try. To reach, believe and trust that Divine Powers do exist and want us all to do well. Thereof, we must look at all our resources to piece this puzzle as best as possible together.
Believe in Divine Powers, proceed with love and from now, identify your blessings.
You will be all set to experience bliss if you start with these simple steps. why? Because knowing that a greater divine power is guiding one is the most comforting feeling ever. It is the first step in removing the hate and skeptical viewpoints that are interfering with our greatness. It has given us all that we need to do well. Let’s do it to prevent further resentments.
For those of us who presently are believers of one divine power, here is a message from Pope Francis broadcasted on Ted in April 2017. Everybody is pleading for salvage. Please listen.
I truly appreciate his wisdom and gladly adopt while all logic tells us that we can only progress as a unit and conquer all ugliness with our attitude. That happens in every single moment and start with us. Act out of love and you/we will be loved. Lack of it leads to despair and ugliness and will destroy you/us.
In this piece I wanted to share some of the short cuts [winning strategies] that I have learned and organized over my lifetime that help one to maximize, optimize, and utilize resources. I truly believe that I am just a divine vehicle as all of us are, just channeling a greater purpose. Yes, I now know that there is a higher power. And it wants us all to do well and live in prosperity. Only if we could manage to stay true to ourselves, will we be able to experience bliss. That is a lot of work. However, don’t despair if your factors are not as you wished them to be, I know that you can always start from NOW. A great strategy that has lead to many success stories of our times. Know that we all have the power in today’s world to tap into all our resources to make it great! Our perspectives, doings, sayings, and reactions can damage or enrich. So apply these strategies if you care to steer this mess we are presently experiencing toward a brighter destiny. Having said that, below are the strategies I was referring to:
Love Thyself First
Healing yourself is the best investment ever. Do it guilt free. We women have even a higher responsibility because we are the center of it all as we control our village. Enriching yourself will enrich your village. I used to always be ashamed for doing something for myself. However, now I am glad I did. Surely you can relate. Learning to adopt self loving practices is complex but so worth it.
Refrain from Judgment
Assuming based on one’s conditionings and upbringing is misleading and keeps one framed in a box. Judgement leads to fear and fear will prevent progress. I am not kidding. There are hundred of examples I could cite.
Embrace Change and Adversity
Don’t resist change. It is inevitable as we all know this fact. It truly deepens our soul and beautifies. The sooner you stop moaning about how bad you got it, the sooner you can solve a problem. Never ever fear addressing and seeking to solve a problem! If you fail to address and solve, sooner or later that problem will become your miserable reality. What do I mean? An example is today’s agonizing political environment. The country is divided. However, we have no other choice than to accept it as done. Yet, we are all obligated to pick our lessons and effectively prevent such a mess from repeating itself in history. I, as many as you, felt truly hijacked and mislead. That initially lead to frustrations and anger. All damaging behaviors. But I decided that I will no longer allow external factors to run me. My mission became learning how to embrace the presented adversity. I recognized that we all needed to learn. What are the lessons? Important lessons are that we are not to blindly believe, develop awareness, and remain vigilant. There are so many additional personal stories that validate our need to embrace change and view adversities as learning and growth opportunities. To see how this strategy has helped me to propel, read Adversity Deepens and Beautifies article.
Appreciate the Beauty
Gratitude is truly a winning attitude in life. Ever since I started appreciating my gifts and blessings, did I develop confidence. Do it and you too will see good things unfold for you. We all know it but are we walking the talk? I think not. I could elaborate on that topic forever and ever. However, I will cite a few examples to show you how we all unknowingly contribute to damaging ourselves and our environment. All that because we fail to follow the Universal rules. Sorry for bashing some but for the sake of educating, I do not hesitate. As many of you know I have been striving to break the mold to establish myself as an independent writer, wanting to educate and entertain as I firmly believe knowledge is power and that I am a great storyteller, self thought through real life experiences and accomplishments. My tribe, however, never ever empowered nor supported me. In fact I continued to experience the opposite. Lots of passive aggressive behaviors to imply that I suck and should give up trying. Perhaps I misinterpreted and internalized their dis-empowering, discouraging, and unsupportive conducts!? I allowed people and their reactions to dictate my mood. So naturally my progress in life has been drastically procrastinated. We outlaw people that don’t fit our molds and standards. Sometimes I wonder if it is our jealousy that prevents us from making our resources available to others!? Or maybe misjudgments and assumptions of someone’s character and values!? Fact is that majority of people will go out of their way to prevent one’s success! There are tons of examples that I have personally experienced throughout my life. Here is one: I met a successful coach/author to ask her if she could kindly extend her resources so that I can establish myself. I truly thought she is a kind person who is truly interested in enriching her community, specially since I had observed her progress for 10+ years. However, to my dismay, I learned quickly that I was naive. The truth is that she had displayed throughout multiple interactions that I am not welcomed in her circles. The dumb ass me, however, continued to remain naive and firmly believed that only if I would show my sincerity, that I have all intentions to pay her back for her kindness, she will change her awkward resistance and help me. Was I wrong! In an attempt to intimidate and halt my progress, she brought her husband with as she assumed that I am shy and would not express myself. Additionally she continued to try to convince me that I was wrong with my entrepreneurial endeavors. Initially I didn’t think much of it as I thought she just lacked innovation. In hindsight, however, I know that she did what she did due to a few human conditionings that we all suffer from. We all feel stronger in a group and thereof misjudge our powers. Just in this example there are at least 4 mankind flaws we all suffer from. Misjudgment, jealousy, competition, and missed opportunities to collaborate spread to expand. Initially I was saddened, disappointed, and discouraged. However, the truth is she still is an awesome mother, wife, author, coach; Positively inspires and a teaches. So I decided that it is okay for some folks to repel you if they assess you as not within their tribe. Regardless of how hurt and discouraged you may feel, always appreciate the beautify within everything. She truly has been inspiring to my journey. Thereof I will always appreciate that.
Always act from now and forgive yourself and all external factors. It will excel your prosperity and more importantly prevent irrevocable damages. We all have witnessed miscommunications and provocations that have ended up in uncalled actions. Forgive because all that has hurt you or is still hurting you motivates you to take actions, builds character, and deepened your wisdom. And anybody who does not want to embrace you, should not be a big deal. They just are not on your team. Forgive and move on. As all happens as it should. Harboring ill feelings will only harm you. Know that people are good at the bottom of their heart and do only because they do not know better. A popular wisdom that I gladly adopted and believe in. Side note: I do not advocate for organized religion. However, all gospels, doctrines, religions, and spiritual practices carry deep wisdom that we must combine, adopt, and practice in our daily actions and saying to achieve greatness. Just believing in one entity will limit your resource. No intentions to insult. Just citing a fact that I hope will inspire you to adjust your perspectives and evolve so that you may manage all better to steer your destiny.
Do Good, Always
Spreading love will bring prosperity. Care for how your actions/reactions affect your destiny; Our destiny. Don’t forget the ripple effect of physic. All is about damaging or enriching energies. There are tons of examples for this one. I do want to cite some samples to bring awareness to all of us about how we all are guilty. Jealousy and competition are huge flaws that are damaging us. Subconsciously practicing these flaws not only infests and conditions our psyche, it is royally damaging. The other day I was watching the news. A couple was being interviewed. Between those two, he was more attractive and well spoken. You could see how she suddenly had become insecure because her man was badly trying to impress the attractive anchor lady. Of course it is understandable. I have been so many times myself in that situation. Due to my obesity, I lacked confidence and thereof insecure in presence of my attractive husband. So whenever I felt insecure I would make a stink, get into verbal fights and arguments, and agonize myself because my husband dared to eye a more attractive woman. How dare him. Evaluating my reactions and actions in hindsight, I know my manipulative conducts were quite damaging. But I forgive myself as I was executing subconsciously due to my conditinings. The true story was that most men will always think with their dick and if they have not learned to control their actions and reactions, will visually react to a more attractive person. It truly is no reason for jealousy nor insecurity as love is voluntarily, not forced. A good man will look and react but will always come back to his anchor. Remain secure and control the situation. If his autopilot actions are hurtful to you, just express yourself. If he doesn’t honor it, then you know sooner than later. From personal experiences I can tell you that the more you adopt that philosophy, that love is voluntarily and unforced, the liberated you will feel. Thereof do not engage in any manipulative behaviors to justify your own insecurities and/or jealousy. Another super damaging behavior is that we women are still backstabbing each other to compete with one another for attention. How stupid. Don’t we realize that we are unknowingly conditioning ourselves. Not only are we still sending sexiest messages to our fellow sisters, we are also teaching the upcoming generation by being a role model. If we strive to be treated equally, we must learn to manage these bad behaviors.
Maximize your Resource
This is huge. A huge reliable resource is you. Invest in yourself and I promise you will be ahead. Train your brain. Don’t be afraid to standup for yourself no matter how much resistance you face. Only authenticity will set you free. Whatever truly bothers your core, distance yourself as it is OK. I left my family behind. To this date that actions is at times being challenged and questioned by people as they believe one should remain loyal to a born in tribe and if one breaks free, one should feel guilty. And I did for years. Feeling guilty and lonely. However, deep down I always knew I was doing the right thing in contrary to how people assessed my actions as shrewd. Another practice to optimize your resources is to find your tribe and learn to collaborate. That means people you are at ease with to have a dialogue with as only together can we grow.
Grow and Evolve
Growing and evolving is the only way you can keep ahead in this times. Change is happening rapidly. If you don’t rise up and evolve, you will suffer. Knowledge is power. So never fail to grow, evolve, and naturally sacrifice to achieve improvements. This includes your sincere ability to admit to mistakes and make a conscious effort to rectify. If you attempt to hide your flaws, you will commit to other lies to cover and/or justify. However, with that you will continue to lie to yourself which is another damaging flaw due to its ripple effect.
The more divided you are on your perspectives, goals, and missions, the harder it will be for you to genuinely tune into your true potential. It is your job to properly listen to signs and identify your purpose. If you do not move in alignment within your path and purpose, you will dearly pay. I know it as I have committed that mistake so many times in my life. I don’t regret as each one of the experiences has had teachable moments and has made me into who I am. In my case in served a purpose as I love being a life scholar that breaks down facts and shares them in writing. However, I noticed we all wander off because of our fearful self-talks that divert and mislead us. If you want to be more efficient and reach your destiny faster, eliminate possibilities quickly to make choices and stick to them. It expedites your progress.
This is a huge one. Comparision truly will weaken your abilities to advance from where you are. Due to this very damaging conditioning, we are halting our progress as individuals and collectively. I know it as people have always had a reaction to me due to being a little bit more advanced. Within these past few years, I dared to utilize all my available resources to transform myself. Ever since, it has gotten even more tense for me. The withdrawal of friendships, support, love, and kindness has been very cruel and hurtful. I, however, wanted to succed even more since I am rebelious by nature. Glad Universe gifted me with that attitude as it served me in contrary to how my surrounding unknowingly was trying to force me into believing that being rebelious is stupid. Look at comparission from a different angle. Maturity and mankind advancement vary. We accept that among children. As we all know girls advance much faster. Yet we are unable to accept that in adults as it has caused gender discrepancies due to repellant attitudes of men towards women due to comparison and jealousies. The genders are battling it out and so are there are massive competition among us women as well men. All ridiculous animalistic behaviors. As we all have been brainwashed to believe that comparison is okay as it motivates. Wrong. Do do not get upset nor intimated if you run into a more advanced human being who has firgured how to utilize his/her gifts. Make it your mission to learn, rather than repel or jump to assumptions to justify your behaviors. Develop individual awareness of how your abilities are to accept and pace at ease without insecurities so that you may continue to maximize your potential. It is all about healing yourself to collectively propel.
Projecting your believe system onto people or circumstances is truly hurtful. I have seen and experienced this so many times. People assume that I am a lesbian because I do not engage in flirtious behaviors with men or am too town-boyish!? And I have been labled as unfriendly or standoffish because I am an introvert who has learned through a painful life trajectory not to blindly trust as I know that there is always a hidden agenda that drives us. You go to doctor’s office, believing that there is a compassionate expert who wants you to do well and yet he/she is only motivated to profit and expects to be respected/adored for just being a doctor. Terrible! There are tons of other examples of how projecting our own believe system onto others is misleading you and pushing others into a defensive/combative mechanism. It creates anger and resentments in us and our communities. I truly thought to myself that I should maybe be a lesbian since everyone was insinuating that I fit the bill. But I am not. I don’t care anymore for being as I am. One does NOT need to be forced into any mold for being different. Having adopted this strategy too helps me as well. I no longer assume anything about anyone unless they show their true face. And that’s okay too. If someone is not your tribe or has a hidden agenda, don’t behave hostile. Move on. Live and let live.
Trust and Faith
It has been difficult for me to trust and have faith. However, it is a winning tool to adopt. It also is true. If you develop a pure heart, learn your lessons properly, and do your best to do the right thing in life, Universe will always be there for you. That’s the Law of Attraction that’s known and practiced by many. How do I know it? Well, I always have been seeking to identify all my resources to excel, as we all do. Yes, I am blessed for the gift of curiousity that propelled me to discover this major resource. There are tons of example of how one can tap into them. All I did is to closely learn how it’s done. It isn’t that simple to master. However, whatever you continue to practice, you will eventually master. Another added benefit of having faith and trusting that all will be as it should be is so comforting that you no longer will blame nor judge yourself for mistakes. Just remain calm and trust that you are whole as you are.
Higher power and Universal engergies exist. Believing is divine and will make you prosper. Kindness is what has made humanity in this animal kingdom propel and progress. Of course there are many other gifts. Another powerful one is our brain. My gosh. It is another great gift we all have been blessed with. That’s why we must continue to train our brain. But training the brain without compassion will cause corruption. There are tons of studies out there about the correlation between heart and brain. The fonder/purer your heart, the more brain power you will have. Sex and money are sold wrongfully to all of us as a holy grail of power. However, do not forget that kindness is preached in all doctrines. Do not be mislead nor forced by any set standards to disobey this universal law. Any misalignment will come back to you. And yes, if you tell yourself that your unkind actions and doings are okay as they are in alignment with set standards of business and/or any other believe system, you are misleading yourself. Care and the Universe will care for you. If we fail that, we will collectively fail. And failing we are if we don’t pay attention to what is bothering us and fail to actively to aim to rectify. The saying “Failing to plan equals to planning to fail” is so true. I know there are people, including me, who continue to beg us to return the direction of our ship. And with knowledge you can evolve and accomplish that. Be among the pioneers to harvest all powers to excel. Do it!
Ever since the solar eclipse on August 21st, the divine downloads have been extreme. It has felt like I have been in a trance. Thoughts and ideas continue to flow. I used to believe that I was clever. Yes, there was always an esoteric part of me who has believed in harvesting all Universal resources to achieve life milestones. So naturally I easily would make a conscious effort to learn all strategies to propel. That attitude has served me because it has motivated me to continue educating myself. Now, however, I know that there is a greater power steering it. I am humbled to be a chosen one among million of other greats that are spreading love and kindness in this world to enrich. So do not be afraid to wake up, develop awareness, nor do limit yourself due to lack of knowledge. Meet your higher self. This guy explains it so well what it is.
It is truly who you are and what your values are. As I mentioned previously, I do not believe in organized religion. I condemn that organization because they have become corrupted and power hungry and thereof are misleading us. Nor delusional about some weird, non-existing Universal powers. Millions have felt the divine energy that has forced changes in all of us within these past few years. Victor Oddo has been a virtual guide to me. Listen to what he has to say about these divine energies referred to.
I would have lost it many times if it wasn’t for the divine energies that would lead me to various available resources that have helped me to remain sane and navigate through this maze called life. It has been a blessing that I have learned these skills due to experienced hardships. Exhausting at times. But so worth it.
Lastly if you cannot be convinced that spirituality nor energies exists, here is a religious explanation of how it all correlates.
All of these included resources are to educate you. What qualifies me to preach, is my love and passion to observe and study life, organize strategies, and write to make it all better. I have done that my entire life and am getting closer to managing it efficiently.
No matter how you aim to reach greatness, may you always succeed.
Positive change starts within and spreads to your immediate community. Believe me! If you care to heal the world and our earth, then please start the positive changes within. I did today. I attended a solar eclipse party and dared to shamelessly tell people what are their inappropriate behaviors. And I am proud of it as I know things that tick people off are thought provoking and make them think about many things. As painful this viewpoint and challenging it has been in my life, I care less. And know that Universe has a message for all of us. That we are all gifted and must use our gifts to spread good into our world. I as a warrior of life have not done the right thing thus far either, fully. Yes, partially I would (or maybe subconsciously) always challenge myself and others to push buttons. However, I would always feel ashamed later and try to justify my actions to surrounding people. They too, however, seem to be too conditioned to do the right thing. Thereof, if you fail to listen to yourself, you will be mislead.
Change Starts Small & Within
So here is what transpired today for me and how you too can decide to change today.
As I was making my way into the venue, I dared to be who I truly am and told myself to not care about people’s reactions and don’t allow myself once again to be intimated that distracts, hurts, and makes always miss opportunities in life. Yes, I took many breaths to calms my anxiety. Why anxious? Because people are bullies at times without knowledge due to their conditionigs and learned behavioral limitations, and fears, and I freaking am an empath. If you don’t know what that is, what the heck are you doing here? As I was driving, the radio was playing a tune. Within the lyrics I heard ‘I must confess and imagine people naked’. So there. Advises and guides are everywhere. Your job is to pick up the right frequencies. I did picture everyone naked and was not afraid to call their inappropriate behaviors to their attention and knew in my heart that I only did or said hurtful things out of love, to motivate them to change. People are just inappropriate and will rob your freedom to exist and/or teach you to not fully express yourself because it is politically incorrect. With their actions and/or saying they try to intimidate you, which conditioned and teaches one to remain silent and act as if things went unnoticed. ‘Not with me ‘ as I have been telling myself for a while. However, implementing it has been rather difficult as people will continue to punish you for defending yourself. It is very hurtful and vindictive at times. Terrible! Back to my stories, a grandpa suddenly noticed me sitting there and just blocked my view. I patiently waited and waited. He would not move and he kept enjoying his drink while standing in my view. I asked if he could kindly move as he was blocking my view. His reaction was to look at me in a weird way, laugh, and ask me in a sarcastic way “what am I looking at?” I am thinking to myself, “none of your freaking business, really. Didn’t want to talk to you grandpa.” So I looked at him in a funny way and crossed my legs and arms while picturing him naked. It was funny. More importantly the advice worked as he moved and was ashamed to invade my space again. Two minutes later a family noticed me confidently sitting there in my designer outfit and confident and came fairly close to me to start speaking loud about their exciting life events. A woman who either knew them or was there with them, was watching me too from afar. Once she noticed that I am annoyed with the loud speaking voices while sitting there to enjoy the Sonoran desert in quietness, she felt empowered to join the group and add to the noises to intimate my arrogance and confidence. I truly felt like my privacy was intentionally violated in an effort to make feel back about being there solo. I thought to myself: “Okay, if you must try to annoy and intimate me with loud or make me sad 🤣 because I am alone at the venue, I will annoy you guys too.” And I did. I turned my favorite music channel on and it was a rap song that was blurting aggressively “it is going done” and “who the f**k cares what they think”. Wow! I couldn’t help it. I started shaking and dancing. The family started laughing. I laughed back and ask if they can kindly take their loud convos somewhere else as it is rude they are too loud. It worked too. Of course they gave me the looks of dismay. But I again told myself that I did the right thing as it is rude for people to act in such unkind manner to intimated and push one over to obey their set standards. As if they aim to send a passive aggressive message to condition you. But I keep telling myself that they do not know better. It helps. Last night too was I watching Bill Maher. One thing he said that deeply resonated with me is that we must say it as it is. Enough already of us being conditioned and/or conditioning our fellow people through manipulative behaviors. I for one refuse for myself to be that way ever. Five minutes later another stylish grandpa with colored hairs continues to pass my views while stopping, using his smart phone, trying to impress me with kindness and humorous loud talks to his younger buddies. After he paroled in my viewpoint for the six time, I asked him is he had any intentions as I am not interested in him because he continued showing off in front me. He acted as if my inquiry was rude and was physically shaking. He called me in a disturbing, unkind way: “You are Weird.” I said “so what!?” Someone must tell people how obvious their inappropriate, damaging behaviors are so that they may think of their actions and rectify. Wishful thinking. Two minutes later he joins a group across of me and starts bashing me to them while they too start laughing at me. One of them was a chubby guy who I could tell is insecure and felt empowered once the grandpa joined their group. He started to some degree mimicking my dancing and started shaking legs and talking out loud with the grandpa while looking over. I laughed again cause I could not help than to imagine him naked, shaking his fat belly. He was wearing an Apple watch. I had to blurt to him that he should shake it and take a few steps for a change while thinking how Bill Maher said to call it as it is. We all are blessed with so much yet we chose to engage in damaging behaviors. Enough is enough.
With those intentions in mind and totally being vested in healing the world one step at the time, I bought a domain. Quite a lofty mission but I believe together we can heal the world as it is doable if we only focus on the positives and make small changes. Because one day we will be proud of our accomplishments! You can do it.
This morning I have been thinking of how most people annoy me with their small talks that include lots of negativity, empty talks of wishes that repeat year after year, ignorance, self importance with routines, and complaints of time passing by. It also seems like as we get older, we engage more into talking at surface level. Lots of routines with no deep meanings. It’s boring. Hell, I too have been guilty of all these behaviors.
Then I thought to myself that is plain rude of me to be that negative. Besides, everyone has the right to live the life as they are meant to live it. With all their opinions, flaws, and insecurities. I am the one who doesn’t fit in. My imagination is to talk to people that are impressive and add value, laugh with, share intellectual and spiritual moments with, and live in the moment to age gracefully. And if I collaborate, then we must together create some excitement. Be it tangible or not. Spending time in any other way is a wasted time to me. Quite arrogant!
However, that attitude tells me that I must stop worrying about what’s wrong with people, society, family, past, generation, genders, me, and etc. It’s depressing, stressful, pointless, and paralyzing. Of course we must agree that there is tons wrong. Now, however, I know why my visions have been delayed; Because of me. Myself inflicted miseries. Too busy to focus on what’s wrong with everything and me. Trying so badly to authenticated the discrepancies. That’s a prime example of seeing the glass half empty rather than half full. More importantly it’s contradictory with the philosophy of gratitude and rather disrespectful.
The lessons here are:
Accept yourself with all your expectations in life.
Let go of that what cannot be changed, peacefully.
Stay strong if faced with fears, doubts, or loneliness caused by others’ animosity, disapproval, resistance, discouragement, intimidation, love withdrawal, ignorance, spitefulness, pitifulness, or any other forms of imposed emotional abuses. They do not know better. Ignore and peacefully move on!
Gracefully remain steadfast and on the mission.
Continue to improve your game. This strategy is complex but the best.
Complete the necessary work.
Be open to miracles.
Always love yourself thru it all.
Be kind and forgive.
Count your blessings and appreciate your gifts.
Have fun! Enjoy the journey with all its ups and downs.
More force to those who lack a support system.
May we all make it to what we strive to be in life while we have the opportunity. Happy😊