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Shift of Powers

These past few years have been rough for all of us, to say the least. It’s getting even rougher as resistance to the inevitable upcoming changes will affect all of us and is exhausting at times. However, it is understandable as change was never taken well by general public. I have worked years in Human Resources and know that change is fought and resisted passionately in general. Sad actually, as there are very well reasons why there is a hierarchy [identified powers] in place in business as well as all our teams in life. If people would or could accept their role in that team environment and cooperate, then the system would function smoothly. Regretfully it isn’t that simple. Specially in today’s world. People have gotten false beliefs and continue to challenge that team dynamic in general. That itself is the most damaging flaw that we as a nation must overcome if we are to see any success in our existence as humanity.

To elaborate even more on how these flaws are infesting within our communities, groups, government, and anything else, just see the upsetting oppositions between groups that are causing division. I personally spent much time behind my laptop, researching and reading. In doing that, I have noticed the comments from resisting groups who are very angry about these changes. Yes, these changes are narrowing gaps for indecencies and inappropriate behaviors for perpetrators. But they have to understand that we live in a democracy and liberal world. Powers are set based on logic. Not based on falsely presented facts to benefit bullying groups. Animal behaviors exerted by those who have had powers is simply unjust and uncalled for in today’s world. We cannot consciously give ourselves the okay to judge and challenge anything that is against one’s values. The greater good is more important.

A black and white example is our gun laws. Yes, in America guns have been assessed as our rights. However, with all the violence we are experiencing today, it must be reformed to accommodate/overcome today’s challenge . Yet, there are so many groups that cannot agree on that and will passionately fight and argue and if needed maliciously use/abuse their powers to get their points across to ensure this amendment remains as it was assessed as our rights! Really?  These groups are insisting that we maintain this law as it is and advocates even more guns among us so that we can protect ourselves. The other day the News was showing teacher receiving military training and schools are to be armed now. Great! What is the mission? To get our people even more violent and agitated? Are we to be on guard now according to those people, believing that an armed world is a place to exist? So wrong. I would have to live in such a volatile world, always on guard. OMG! We have to kindly understand that we must reform our systems to make it work for us and not adopt more and more of combative behaviors.

Another huge one is the shift of powers between men and women. Our men despite  logically expressing their compassion, wanting to cooperate, to make the world a better place for all genders, are acting upset in all walks of life. This too goes back to humanity automatically resisting/opposing change. Just look at our history! Great innovations were battled and denied and people who introduced them were initially prosecuted just to stand our ground in our wrong belief systems.

Sure, men have gotten away all these years with being adored and being given powers to run like a bull into the china shop, not really thinking that these damaging behaviors have a ripple effect throughout their immediate communities and society in large. Despite the light that has been shined on these ugly  behaviors through recent uproars, we are, however, collectively at fault. Because we allowed these behaviors for years to manifest and now it is a second nature to them. Logic wants them to cooperate, but learned belief systems will motivate them to fight changes with all their powers. As a Life Coach, I know reform/change of deeply embedded conditioning is a lot of work. Yet only hard work can and will lead to success.

Embracing change, that includes the shift of powers, is the only way to ensure our continuance. My biggest wish/dream is that we all one day soon are able to grow/evolve on that fact. I did and can testify that it is liberating to embrace change. The wisdom of Taoism, a Chinese religion, tells us that we must learn to be flexible in life in order to flow with the needs of our times. Remember change is inevitable!

Love and Blessings ❤️

Break Bonds that High-jack One

breaking bonds

It’s a secret to success in life. The more focused you remain on your mission and ignore what a dysfunctional society and/or your surrounding wants from you, the closer you will be to bliss. Now a days that’s quite difficult to manage as every single interaction demands your attention and conditions you. The more one tries to please all and everyone, the more one’s soul splits or in other terms gets lost and confused. I know first hand how that it is as I too as many of you have grown up in a dysfunctional family as well as have dealt and am still dealing  with the society and all it imposes on me. All those expectations caused me to questions my trajectory and thereof remain unhappy. A conditioning that most of us suffer from. My dysfunctional family, specially my love for my mother derailed and bluffed me to remain convinced that my happiness could have been or should have been different. Since she has been unable to maximize her resources and has been convinced that we all must brood together, she insists and argues with me for hours that my way is wrong because it does not flow with hers. As if I belong to her because she gave birth to me and must accept that BS. It is ironic. Same thing happens outside. Because I have been an introvert and care less to socialize and shoot the crap with everyone, society tries to condition me with their reaction to my uninviting attitude. Makes me feel like crap! As if I must smile at everyone and listen to all cutsie pitches and/or attempts to connect. If I don’t, then I am crazy and/or a bitch or too standoffish. So sorry about that. It truly is not my intentions to offend anyone. However, one must understand that the more you try to please everyone and/or all interactions, the less you are able to please yourself in life. Naturally I have developed a very thick skin to remain focused on my mission.

A very strong bond is indeed a tie to one’s roots. The expectations of our surrounding misleads us to believe we must comply with a dysfunctional manner of existence due to fake set expectations. But we must not! I for one saw how my own family managed to ruin themselves and all due to their wrong mindsets and their wrong reactions to external factors. As if we they had no control. Kind of stupid. So sorry to say that. However, that is the fact. If we are not privileged to grow in the most idealistic environment to be whole, we run ourselves down the drain because we try to keep up with it all while loosing ourselves. So I decided I will not partake it that.

Do not allow your emotional bonds nor reactions high-jack you. We have a choice. Now and the future can be brighter only if we decide to address issues in a proper manner. In my personal life I have been multiple times in cross roads where I had to make hard choices that set my family and/or society off to follow my own bliss. To say the least, it has been very rough as I continued to feel guilty and ashamed for my ways of existence. However, today I am super happy that I always followed this principle regardless of how much pain, loneliness, and awkwardness I endured. As I always knew that you can only be helpful to your family and/or surrounding if you are full yourself. Naturally I have proudly remained dedicated to my mission. Same applies to our collective trajectory as a society. All our experiences depend on our correct choices now and today. We control it all. We can control the crazies from running nuts to disturb the freedom of all those who were trying to experience love and happiness in Las Vegas. How many more tragedies must we experience before we wake up? Failing to take active actions at the right time to control us and our environment will result in tragic outcomes. That’s a fact.

Love and Blessings ❤️


Lack of Control


Fighting control has been an issue that has divided a nation and its people. Logically we must, however, for the sake of unity understand that it takes control to bring order back to our nation as well as our communities to achieve unity. Lack of control in all areas of life has allowed confused, power hungry, greedy people to run the show and take the ship into a direction that is royally damaging and unrecognizable. Enough is enough! We all agree to that logic. Let’s stick to it and flourish it. Let’s start repairing and making it good again. It is achievable only if pledge to it and take steps to repair. We all can start from where we are at as repair and healing starts within. Prioritize and refrain from falling into a routine life that distracts one from priorities in life. Address what must be addressed first prior to engaging in mind-less entertainment and routines, forgetting your priorities. As we all know, the root of any issue must be addressed first to clear up real damage. Otherwise we will automatically rely on numbing our pain that has been caused by the damage which leads to even more damage. I personally engaged in that type of repeating cycle for years. What a waste of my life time! The awaking is so awesome that I am super eager to inspire others. The timing couldn’t be better for our nation needing to wake up and take control of all that needs to be controlled in order to shut down people who are taking advantage of us giving control or relaxing on control, believing that people will do the right thing with common sense. Regretfully that’s an inaccurate assumption. I learned that truth in a hard way. Nevertheless, we humans are part of the animal kingdom and depending on our believe systems, we form our hidden agendas and exert our animal powers to propel our agendas in life. If we don’t control and tame those sides, we will do the wrong thing based on mentioned facts. Understand and accept that control is a good thing not bad as long as it is fair and within rules that bring order and peace. We can do it!

Love and Blessings ❤️