Category Archives: Bullies

Shift of Powers

These past few years have been rough for all of us, to say the least. It’s getting even rougher as resistance to the inevitable upcoming changes will affect all of us and is exhausting at times. However, it is understandable as change was never taken well by general public. I have worked years in Human Resources and know that change is fought and resisted passionately in general. Sad actually, as there are very well reasons why there is a hierarchy [identified powers] in place in business as well as all our teams in life. If people would or could accept their role in that team environment and cooperate, then the system would function smoothly. Regretfully it isn’t that simple. Specially in today’s world. People have gotten false beliefs and continue to challenge that team dynamic in general. That itself is the most damaging flaw that we as a nation must overcome if we are to see any success in our existence as humanity.

To elaborate even more on how these flaws are infesting within our communities, groups, government, and anything else, just see the upsetting oppositions between groups that are causing division. I personally spent much time behind my laptop, researching and reading. In doing that, I have noticed the comments from resisting groups who are very angry about these changes. Yes, these changes are narrowing gaps for indecencies and inappropriate behaviors for perpetrators. But they have to understand that we live in a democracy and liberal world. Powers are set based on logic. Not based on falsely presented facts to benefit bullying groups. Animal behaviors exerted by those who have had powers is simply unjust and uncalled for in today’s world. We cannot consciously give ourselves the okay to judge and challenge anything that is against one’s values. The greater good is more important.

A black and white example is our gun laws. Yes, in America guns have been assessed as our rights. However, with all the violence we are experiencing today, it must be reformed to accommodate/overcome today’s challenge . Yet, there are so many groups that cannot agree on that and will passionately fight and argue and if needed maliciously use/abuse their powers to get their points across to ensure this amendment remains as it was assessed as our rights! Really?  These groups are insisting that we maintain this law as it is and advocates even more guns among us so that we can protect ourselves. The other day the News was showing teacher receiving military training and schools are to be armed now. Great! What is the mission? To get our people even more violent and agitated? Are we to be on guard now according to those people, believing that an armed world is a place to exist? So wrong. I would have to live in such a volatile world, always on guard. OMG! We have to kindly understand that we must reform our systems to make it work for us and not adopt more and more of combative behaviors.

Another huge one is the shift of powers between men and women. Our men despite  logically expressing their compassion, wanting to cooperate, to make the world a better place for all genders, are acting upset in all walks of life. This too goes back to humanity automatically resisting/opposing change. Just look at our history! Great innovations were battled and denied and people who introduced them were initially prosecuted just to stand our ground in our wrong belief systems.

Sure, men have gotten away all these years with being adored and being given powers to run like a bull into the china shop, not really thinking that these damaging behaviors have a ripple effect throughout their immediate communities and society in large. Despite the light that has been shined on these ugly  behaviors through recent uproars, we are, however, collectively at fault. Because we allowed these behaviors for years to manifest and now it is a second nature to them. Logic wants them to cooperate, but learned belief systems will motivate them to fight changes with all their powers. As a Life Coach, I know reform/change of deeply embedded conditioning is a lot of work. Yet only hard work can and will lead to success.

Embracing change, that includes the shift of powers, is the only way to ensure our continuance. My biggest wish/dream is that we all one day soon are able to grow/evolve on that fact. I did and can testify that it is liberating to embrace change. The wisdom of Taoism, a Chinese religion, tells us that we must learn to be flexible in life in order to flow with the needs of our times. Remember change is inevitable!

Love and Blessings ❤️

Age of Spirituality

The 90th Oscars last night confirmed we are indeed in the age of spirituality, if we like it or not. I believe!

Finally, times resonate. As per Wheel of Fortune in Tarot cards, seasons do change, light does follow darkness. I personally have been the minority and an odd ball in this world [assessed as lesbian, crazy, angry, agitated and everything else in between]. It is a blessing that what we women have fought for all our life is showing signs of fruition. There are so many greats that have indeed paved the ways for us. It’s our time to do good!

Embracing differences + Opening up dialogue are the first needed steps on our lengthy journey ahead.

But to again glorify how Oscars send many social messages, it was too good to hear that set norms [status quo or standards] are no longer necessarily a fit in today’s world. I knew it! People finally dare to stand up to injustice to say enough is enough as I have been all my life. Colored people, women, and other definition of minorities get pushed around and bullied to be forced into things [to sum all ugliness] or a lifestyle one doesn’t want. Terrible! I was blessed to remain protected from all the crap that has gone around.

Many as I must be happy times are changing. Some might not as change poops on some people’s parade. Yet it is promise that only change promises our continuity. All resistance will lead to your own destruction. I have been on that route in my life and speak of years of sufferings. Yes, lots of work ahead of us. But the healing and unity will be so worth it. To start the collective healing to achieve unity, we must learn to embrace all our differences and be okay with addressing what must be addressed! Failure to plan is planing to fail. Obviously.

Here is my latest episode on my YouTube channel. My 2cents 😁

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Episode I – What Makes People Ugly | Costco

Salome’s Educational Pieces

In this episode I highlight my ugly interactions with the public in NE Mesa, Arizona, Costco shop, in an informal and witty way to educate my community about things that we must be descend about in the society. Bullying women and specially minority around due to misunderstandings and narcissism is damaging.

We women carry the responsibility to start this much needed movement to heal our communities. My mission is to educate as many people as possible in my immediate community to achieve collective healing and reunite again.

[My sincere apologies to whom ever feels offended. I am the one who feels harassed and discriminated : ( ]

Please know that I am speaking in love and not hate!

If you are a woman, specially a minority who feels harassed like a cattle in this world of corruption, wear a band on your index finger to say “NO” to being bullied in life.

Download screensaver, share, and participate to stand up in unity.


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Standard vs. Uniqueness


From experience I can testify that repelling uniqueness or differences is part of the Western culture and in general part of humanity. I was a foreigner in Germany for 10 years and now have lived in United States for 25+ years as a Persian. In Germany I would be assumed to be a Turk as Turkish people were allowed to migrate to that country as laborers after WWII to help rebuild the country and in the States, specially in Southwest, people assume I am Mexican or a Native Indian. Due to having experienced the [ugly] treatments most Westerner extend to these groups, I know that repelling anything that differs from expected standards is the norm within these societies. Simultaneously, I have been exposed to my own culture discriminatory behaviors as well. So naturally I have seen how we tend to repel anything that differs from our programmed belief system. However, it has been utmost harsh! As a privileged Persian who would have been brought up within my groups, I would have never experienced these kind of unjust behaviors existing within our societies/cultures. So I would have used/misused my powers to bully the lesser privileged groups.

We can beat our programmed belief systems. I lucked out by isolating and experiencing life differently so I can report to you that if we fail to control the natural course of our thinking pattern that is motivated by a false belief system [programmed], we will fail to ever see unity! Why? Isn’t that pretty obvious!? Our environments have changed drastically ever since the internet. We now are aware of much more than our brains are capable of handling. Globalization has caused many clashes among the various groups that we previously were unaware of. Because of our inability to process all that information, being mislead and slipping into the wrong path due to our faulty believe systems is easily doable by those who can play us. That is disastrous! Clashes of opinions are not be feared as only exchanging in a healthy manner will propel us as humanity ahead.

There are so many examples to cite to point out a few related issues presently playing mind games with all of us. An example, Opiate Addiction Epidemic is on the rise because the differences that are challenging our learned/programmed standards ARE above average. These discrepancies are leading to massive stress and depressions. Regretfully a society that is money motivated and has learned to remain focused on money, can easily be corrupted by its leaders that we rely on. So we go to our doctors who we believe are the experts [leaders] we can trust. Yet our doctors are motivated to make a living. Pharmaceutical companies send out account managers who are charming and enticing. They tell our doctors that the more they prescribe of their medications [recorded & reported by pharmacies], the more prestige and money they will receive. At times we run into good people who will never partake in such a corrupt system, yet can one trust blindly? He or she might be just selling you in such a cunning manner that you will never know. Or they too might have been convinced that their learned conventional education is the only way to address issues!? I have been there. In 2015, I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. The neurologist who I was told to see, scared me to death by insisting that I must start pharmaceutical treatments as soon as possible to prevent future relapses. He cheerfully expressed that he had my best interest in mind with his serious recommendations. Since I had worked for a pharmaceutical corporation and knew how the system works, despite initially loosing it, I went into research. Not even one week passed by till I was being bombarded with calls from a prominent pharmaceutical company specializing in MS patients. I talked to a very kind concierge nurse exclusive assigned to me to support me. I felt special and a sense of calmness, believing that she truly cared for me. But in my research I found out why she was motivated to do this. Not to say that she personally lacked compassion, the truth, however, remains that she was an employee of a pharmaceutical company who has been advised to execute her job professionally. Not to dismiss that people lack sincerity but maybe it was just a presented show to comply with her duties!? Come to find out, I would have been a 100k client annually to them. Of course they will assign a concierge nurse [customer service representative] who probably handles so many more 100k patients for her company.

The worse thing is that if I had opted to listen to my doc blindly, I would have been hooked on depression medications and who knows what else to manage the side affects of the MS drug. An official patient in the system to generate money. In general, any medical problem should not immediately be combated with medication, including depression However, standards compel us to rely on this false belief system that has been ingrained [programmed] into us.

To make a long story short, I even went back a year later, thinking that my good health and weight-loss achieved would convince my doc to adopt kinder and gentler ways of treatments that he could advocate to his other MS patients. He actually arrogantly repelled and dismissed me as I did not provide the relationship that he had accepted mentally. Either his doings were due to true arrogance, cause how dare me to challenge his gained years of expertise, or he was truly corrupted and only interested in working with people that supply to his motives without questioning his authority. Regardless of his reasons, I could care less as I am grateful I relied on my own wisdom handling the situation that had such a profound effect on my well-being. The point is always take into consideration your own well-being and do not allow anyone to mislead you, either knowingly nor unknowingly.

We must acknowledge that our inability to consolidate our differences to co-exist in this global world,  causes damages to ourselves and the society in large. Because we unknowingly [automatically] engage in combating/conflicting behaviors just to justify our world to our set standards. If you pay attention, you will notice that battling differences in this world is lately the standards that’s why shit is hitting the fan.  It happens between genders, left and rights, ethnics, religious groups, country, and on and one and on. Gosh people defend their opinions, belief systems, teams, groups, and everything will all their powers with zero regards to a greater good. These behaviors are automated in compliance with our natural tendencies to behave like animals rather than cultured and controlled. That’s why we as humans have been chosen to be the top of the animal kingdom. Engaging in any uncontrolled behaviors will destroy our resources including us self. In order to store harmony and recreate unity in all realms of life, small and large, we must learn to embrace differences. How to do that when there is so much complexity confusing messages, injustice, and the never ending problems among all the different groups and in the world? It can be difficult at times to navigate through all that is transpiring around us and it’s easy to crawl back into our known belief systems [standards] to hide and numb ourselves. But don’t give up as there is a methodical way out. Yes, it is lots of work. But so worth the peace the harmony of your mind lends. How have I reached such a state of mind? Despite wanting to give up trying, I continued to remain objective in life, always sought the truth despite its ugliness at times, stayed focused on what has been enhancing my life, and acted out of kindness with the knowledge I was exposed to and the powers I was given. Many times my persona has been misjudged due to handling things myself as well as issues differently, against the set standards. However, I have continued to successfully exist in such a manner and can confidently tell you that it is the only way of moving forward in this environment. May the fittest survive is one of our universal laws that we must abide by to prevail. Norms and standards as expected are being challenged in today’s world. Only learning to embrace our differences and remain aware of the truth to control issues is our solution to heal as a global society. Together we can heal and better manage our resources to unit. It starts within and must entail adopting co-existence strategies. Learning to embrace our differences [be it internal or external] is the only way to overcome chaos/disaster to restore peace, harmony and unity. Do it!

Love and Blessings ❤️


Hope is Alive

Happy New Year All. 2018 has shown a very strong start thus far, allowing me and many others to once again believe that a brighter future is possible. The message of hope is being conveyed in many ways. But the most powerful message was sent by Oprah, our most influential public figure presently who finally steps forward to assume the role of a much needed beacon of hope during these hard times. There isn’t anyone more qualified to lead us than Oprah. Of course we cannot fool ourselves as rebuilding takes a lot of work. There are many areas and issues to be addressed, cleaned up, and rectified. Yet with collaboration and active management we can collectively gather all our tools to recoup from all that has gone south.

America presented an empowering solidarity at the 75th Golden Globe Award show. Once again the world sees this nation rising up to inspire us all to start healing and repair. The work, however, must be strategically laid out and organized as it is complex. Yet it is doable as we have all we need to get the job done correctly this time to achieve prosperity.  We finally stand up in unity to say no to injustice toward women while acknowledging their hard work thus far. Today’s women are indeed qualified to lead us to success. It is logical as they are biologically kinder and fairer. To reiterate and agree to that strong message of all our powerful Hollywood women, gender equity is the first step. Both genders must work as a team to utilize the strength of each other effectively moving forward. A simple stereotyping of our gender strength based on science is that women are more strategical and men are more efficient in executing.  Since we know that behind all healthy villages are women, we need to start supporting and healing our women first so that our society can heal again. Work must start within as inner conflicts do compel one to be and act ugly at times. These small things that we ignore, deny, defend, and lie about cause damages to ourselves as well as our immediate circles and lend to a broken society. And control/address those who continue to fail and/or think that they can get away with bullies, corruption, and other bad behaviors. And too stop tolerating, collaborating, and supporting wrong doers. Know that saying no to ugliness is not ugly nor harsh, but equates to love as it is in the interest of a greater good.

See something, say something. Silence is not always the best solution. Dialogue and open communication are key to our success. Yes, we have been trained to remain politically correct and pretend we didn’t notice ugly behaviors. They start very small yet tolerating any ugly behaviors in ourselves as well as our circle of influence leads to these behaviors infesting and establishing themselves. What has to be addressed must be addressed. Time is indeed up and we have to stop being ignorant. Ignorance equates to tolerance and failure to plan is planning to fail as we see presently all across our landscape. Majority of us regretfully believe that conversations and/or addressing issues are negative and we categorize them as rants. The truth, however, is that dialogue is constructive and positive, not negative as we have been brainwashed to believe. Change your perspective about that fact and many doors will open as you get to explore and navigate your world clearer.

Many of you must have felt relieved and uplifted as I too finally relieved see my voices amplified. All my life I have had to endure much opposition and ugliness just to exist and try to thrive. To say the least, it is a hard road to travel. Yet the light at the end of each phase is so worth it. Do the work and you shall see the fruit of your labors some day. It is that hope that has propelled us humans to continue to thrive. With that in mind I too would love to be part of this historical movement as my story is a story that captures the ups and downs of our existence and how we all can tap into our resources to accomplish bliss if we learn to endure and move with grace and love in life. To learn more of this project “In God We Trust”, go to Kickstarter page. Please support if you can.

Let the work begin!

Love and Blessings ❤️


Now or Never!

earth angelNow or never is the divine warning to all of us! We have all the resources to be great again yet we have allowed ourselves to walk the wrong path. Why? As it is absolutely not needed. Yes, it is lots of work to turn our ship around, but healing starts with a small step. To heal the world, heal thyself first. And know that the journey is fun and rewarding. Dare to and just mimic all others who have accomplished true happiness. I know that we can do it cause I did it. How to? It is a lengthy process. However, it can be expedited only if you could stop denying facts, that we have all the resources to be great. Who am I to deliver such a profound, life changing message? Well, apparently we are going through a paradigm shift on earth and seem like I am part of it. Listen to Harry Styler’s song “Sign of the Times”:

It’s been leery and ominous, to say the least. But I am done playing small as all the signs lead to a logical explanation for my existence. I am a true teacher, a writer, and a life scholar who cares about you and us. I want us all to do well. Within these past few weeks, it has unraveled that I am one to organize the facts/resources so that we all can propel together. I believe we all want that. The 1st thing that must stop in order for us to start healing is to accept that we only can live up to our potential within this animal kingdom. And no! you cannot be anything you want to be if you lack the potential which is a law of animal kingdom hierarchy. Accept, stop being jealous, trying to outdo those above you. That’s the first thing. Believe in all existing powers as well as good and bad energies and the truth that if we don’t pay attention to what we need to, then we will be misled/misguided and suffer. We all know how that feels like as we are all hurt children who want to be loved. Watch Pink’s video, called “What About Us”:

I truly had no option than to believe and develop faith in our Universe after getting the messages loud and clear. But honestly, I wasn’t even a believer, to begin with. That fact confirms that there is no way I could have been brainwashed to blindly believe, in other words, I cannot be delusional. Impossible! The next step is to do right, always and in any situation or interactions. Please do not engage in mindless entertainment that allows the top to lead us like marionettes. Look where we are at because we have been trained to focus on just passing the presented bridge and pretend to be happy. We are not. A sample is the hurricane Harvey. We have been warned that climate change will devastate our habitat. Yet we failed to prevent and we engage in helping now to feel worthy and humble about ourselves momentarily. Enough already. There is still time to prevent future disasters. Failing to plan is the same as planning to fail. The other day I watched the news and observed all the kindness and that all of us wanting to help, which is honorable. Yet, what the fuck! That’s the most stupid mistake ever. We need to address as soon as a problem arises and not let it go to shit! Makes me furious and sad.

Wrong is too that we continue to tolerate wrongs to prevent shaking things up or change the status quo. A pretty obvious present situation is that we continue to tolerate that idiot president’s behaviors while he continues to endanger us/the world due to wanting to entertain and enrich himself. We have allowed him to because we are busy running our routine life’s, convinced we are powerless to force any changes while some run the show. We can do better.

What about gun control? In today’s dangerous world with lots of mental patients running around we continue to argue that the 2nd amendment is still relevant. Not really! We need to wake up before the damage infests and permanently damages. A big sample is as our present opioid epidemic. There are things that are black and white. Stop arguing right and wrong. The sooner you accept, the faster you get to where you can go. Live in now and do your best. Please manage all presented risks at all times to prevent future disasters and take the right steps to ensure harmony, peace, and love.

Another fundamental shift that must happen is that our men must stop behaving like hotshots and predators, falsely following sex and money and power, pretending to be kind with animals or children or their significant others or mothers and friends just to appeal sexually or misuse a woman’s biological tendencies/vulnerabilities to seek love and affection. All of these are signs of seeking to deceive or manipulate. These kind of behaviors will upset and send the wrong messages. That women must and need to compete with one another for men’s attention or play other games. What that will do is to dis-harmonize and cause unnecessary conflicts and corruption resulting in damaging outcomes. The value of a strong family is our only way of continuance. But nowadays we are conditioned to compete, be corrupted, censor, pretend, and/or be manipulative. These are our flaws. Terrible! That must change. Accept that our women have more powers. Utilize them and be more efficient. Any behaviors in contrary to the laws of our Universe will damage our environment. To achieve peace and prosperity, aim to heal. Isn’t that what it should be all about?

Another fact observed is that so many men are not able to compete in today’s world due to not meeting the set standards to achieve happiness and bliss. Many are assessed as too weak, categorized, or expelled. These minorities either resort to convert into the opposite gender or choose to be homosexuals or suicidal or mental or depressed. More terrible conditionings that we partake in because we categorize everyone based on our own false values embedded deeply in our blueprints. What are we unknowingly doing?  Just because someone is different, you should not judge by a superficial evaluation and thereof dismiss. Misjudging/misassessing is not only ugly, it is a possible lost opportunity. Additionally, you are conditioning someone with your passive aggressive, subliminal messages. So do not be afraid of dialogue as it makes us grow nor be afraid of following all methods to aim for greatness. Here is one published method on how to update your blueprint:

In contrary to all that is being preached presently, censorship, pretentiousness, consumption, and mindless entertainments are indeed habits of feeble minded people who are lead. If you want to propel and ever experience bliss, then drop these flaws. These behaviors have sickened our society and are the culprit of all our sufferings. We can do better together if we put our minds to it. That’s why forming the right team is so important to gather the support system that empowers.

In this piece, I am including a video that talks of a Bethlehem star and the 12 signs that correlate with our science that confirm our present shift. So excited for our generation to be part of it.

After having watched a few videos, as the one above, and connecting the dots of all that has transpired in my life, I now am a believer.  I have achieved self healing and am eager to teach you too the how to’s so that you may save yourself as well. Our greats are indeed drumming these messages in many forms and shapes ever since our existence. I continue discovering them. So can you. We humans can be beautiful if we choose too and there are lots of beautiful things on this earth to enjoy, including man’s creations that include music to movies to medical advancement to technology to art to history and the list goes on and on. Manage and preserve us. Do it!

Love and Blessings ❤️


Fight Bulliers


Not enough can be written to communicate the dangerous damages of bullying behaviors caused to individual, communities, and environment. Society at large is suffering of these bullies. They can be unplanned, small, unintentional or they can be intentional, big, and planned. The severity of damages caused by bulliers are getting worse as we are progressing into 21st century, seems like it!? The perpetrators sadly are everywhere and many of them even unaware and/or in denial of their bullying behaviors.

A prime example of such a character is the 2016  GOP Presidential Candidate, Donald Trump. To me, as to to many, he is just a bullier and a clown. I actually got that from my mom who lives in Germany. He is publicly validating the wrong behaviors of millions of bulliers. He dares to play the political arena because he has the platform. Majority of his supporters too are bulliers who have joined his cause or people who are brainwashed to believe this man and his empire could lead a country because he is using his money to sway people with his awesome bought ads. How dumb is he selling us for? Of course there are also those who blindly support him just because he is a member of their group. To support a bully like Trump, however, is pure ignorance and/or stubbornness on their part. It defies logic, fairness, and humanity no matter how supporters reason and/or justify their logic.  That man is a bullier. A man like him knows how to maneuver the crowd because he has the money that buys him the immediate allies and resources to elevate his agendas. Besides he could care less if he wins or loses. He is running for his own financial prosperity, power, and fame. With this level of media coverage and gained support, this monster is going to become even more powerful and richer than he is. Shrewd investors will kill themselves to get a book deal out of that man because now they know very well that there is a large audience out there that supports that kind of behaviors and resonates with him. Those investors will make that scum richer and more powerful. Of course looking after profit because they assess him as a good investment. Money is the agenda and not the well-being of this country and its people in large. Didn’t you notice in his debate that all he wanted was to steal oil from the Middle-East and get paid for provided US services. Talk about lack of integrity. He doesn’t realize that United States uses political strategies to buy respect and leverage, and that’s what is making this country the # 1 in the world. America is already great. We don’t need to paint it as damaged and needing to rectify it. We need to move forward. Universal healthcare is an improvement and not a step back. And yes, we need rules and regulation that will protect American employees from corporations.  Enough of “for profit’ corporations. If they could they privatize everything for profit and screw the people. These brainwashing tactics are a shame! What’s more upsetting is that his servants are supporting this man to succeed because of profits. Again, mankind that is able to jeopardize the well-being of others just for profit without any regards to the good of all, is a bully and a disgrace.

No matter what reasons and character flaws there are that motivate the perpetrators to engage in acts of bullies that cause damage, they must be stopped. All of us are guilty in engaging in such a manipulative behaviors as we are conditioned to tolerate and ignore much of the bullies we put up with due to our internal primitive compass or lizard brain. We are wired to avoid pain and seek pleasure. Furthermore, we are too vested in our own cause to worry about the bullies that transpire around us or even to us. We tell us and each other “pick your battles, accept what it is, and if you don’t like it, move on”. Not realization that perpetrators must be stopped, trained, educated, counseled, corrected if possible or be on watchdog lists before any tragedy and/or damage gets to be irrevocable.  How often have we blamed and/excused harms on some groups and/or upbringings. Definitely it’s true that menaces join harm groups. However, we must realize that these groups have been formed by bulliers/menaces in the name of a cause to justify that behavior.

Enough is enough! bullying

If you consider yourself kind and are seeking to make a difference, please bring awareness into anything that could/might lead to damage and harm. Help humanity to nip bullies in the butt. No matter how small or large they are. Speak up!

Some of the examples of act of bullies are fairly obvious if you pay attention.

I.e. Are you working for a corporation and your boss and/or coworkers are taking credit for your work to enhance their influence, powers, or budget? Address! Don’t ignore, hide, and run. If you don’t know how to fight bulliers out of fears and you decide to ignore and run to another company in hopes of finding the right crowd who assess you as a fit, don’t! If you do, the bullying behaviors of that perpetrator will manifest and victimize others again. Learn rather strategies on how to efficiently address, set boundaries, and fight. Fleeing might not remedy the situation. The next job might mimic your previous job. And you end up as a victim again who let’s bulliers win. This is no joke. Do not allow yourself nor others to be a victim. And don’t let bulliers win.

Sadly not all mankind, in contrary to our believes, has humanly advanced. Mankind is still driven by money, greed, and power. Perpetrators are either active bulliers who execute their acts of bullies in a matter of fact fashion because they can as they know weaker parties will have no choice than to accept, ignore, or run. Bulliers also insist of passive aggressive groups of bulliers who will make themselves fit in and ignore active bulliers acts for the right amount of money, privilege, and networks.

If you are a good person and able to, please fight bullying. We can. It start with our immediate circle. Ignorance is a sign of weakness and that’s what a bullier counts on. What motivates us to run is because we are too tired and battered to stand up. Defending and fighting is work and it is much easier to give up. If you realistically see yourself as being worth of a declined opportunity, then stand your ground. Do not be a victim and don’t internalize implied flaws presented to you as justification from bulliers. They want to convince you that not fitting in is your fault and thereof you must either endure or leave. No other choice. Yes, you could try to pretend to fit in which a lot of people do just to please in hopes of an opportunity. But that’s wrong!

My wish for all people is that every corporation has to add a watchdog department that is paid by the corporations. However, that unit reports to the government so that they can independently act. It would be a protection against the hierarchy executed unfairness. I have been part of the Human Resource Dept. and know very well that they never protect the employees and always need to find out what employee’s problem is so that they can mitigate in favor of company and its bullying officers. But remember, it is your right to stand up and speak for yourselves

Life and a job humanly should be fair. However, it is far from being fair.

The saying “pick your battle wisely” still applies. However, on your terms. Don’t allow bulliers to dictate what those terms are.

Love the saying of Michele Obama. “When they go low, go up”. Kill them softly with love. deal-with-a-bullyThe root source of bullying is a manifested character flaw, motivating a bullier to exert bullying behaviors to rule. Tolerating them is a form of approval. Please don’t. Fight it!

Love and Blessings ❤️