Category Archives: Brain Power

Best Things in Life are Worth Waiting and Working For

There are so many sayings/wisdom that confirm that logic in life. Amazing that a person as wealthy and popular as Prince would too know of this profound wisdom. Respect!

I truly can testify to it as well. People ask me why it took me such a long time to loose weight or to find myself and my calling/purpose. I truly am glad it did take its sweet time as the experiences and the journey that has made me into who I am today are PRICELESS treasures that I cherish. I now know that all transpires as it should and we need to learn to go with the ebbs and flows of life to properly manage. I highly advocate developing patience and integrity in your lifetime to refrain from seeking instant gratification as they are misleading. These virtues truly protected me in life from falling into dangers and wrong paths. So I thank my Universe, Divine Powers, Lord, Gods, Gaia, Allah, HaShem, Buddha or however you refer to our Higher Source. It truly does not matter. What matters is our ability to co-exist and embrace diversity in life. Our worlds and landscapes have drastically changed. If we fail to catch up/step up, we will fail to succeed due to natural law which is the “fittest shall survive”. It is a law of nature. Like it or not. Learn to change and stretch yourself to step up [higher your game] as that is your only choice to bliss or you will fall pray into many forms of mental health disorders that are ridding/destroying us.

Here is my latest episode on YouTube:

I hope you do find valuable information in my stories and wisdom that I share with love. If you cannot, I truly feel sorry as believe you suffer from insecurities that motivate you to repel what you judge/assess.  My messages are getting more direct cause I continue running into oppositions in life. I do apologize for offending anyone. Just offering my “2 cents”.

To support my mission to educate others as well to find bliss, please donate.

Love and Blessings ❤️

Shift of Powers

These past few years have been rough for all of us, to say the least. It’s getting even rougher as resistance to the inevitable upcoming changes will affect all of us and is exhausting at times. However, it is understandable as change was never taken well by general public. I have worked years in Human Resources and know that change is fought and resisted passionately in general. Sad actually, as there are very well reasons why there is a hierarchy [identified powers] in place in business as well as all our teams in life. If people would or could accept their role in that team environment and cooperate, then the system would function smoothly. Regretfully it isn’t that simple. Specially in today’s world. People have gotten false beliefs and continue to challenge that team dynamic in general. That itself is the most damaging flaw that we as a nation must overcome if we are to see any success in our existence as humanity.

To elaborate even more on how these flaws are infesting within our communities, groups, government, and anything else, just see the upsetting oppositions between groups that are causing division. I personally spent much time behind my laptop, researching and reading. In doing that, I have noticed the comments from resisting groups who are very angry about these changes. Yes, these changes are narrowing gaps for indecencies and inappropriate behaviors for perpetrators. But they have to understand that we live in a democracy and liberal world. Powers are set based on logic. Not based on falsely presented facts to benefit bullying groups. Animal behaviors exerted by those who have had powers is simply unjust and uncalled for in today’s world. We cannot consciously give ourselves the okay to judge and challenge anything that is against one’s values. The greater good is more important.

A black and white example is our gun laws. Yes, in America guns have been assessed as our rights. However, with all the violence we are experiencing today, it must be reformed to accommodate/overcome today’s challenge . Yet, there are so many groups that cannot agree on that and will passionately fight and argue and if needed maliciously use/abuse their powers to get their points across to ensure this amendment remains as it was assessed as our rights! Really?  These groups are insisting that we maintain this law as it is and advocates even more guns among us so that we can protect ourselves. The other day the News was showing teacher receiving military training and schools are to be armed now. Great! What is the mission? To get our people even more violent and agitated? Are we to be on guard now according to those people, believing that an armed world is a place to exist? So wrong. I would have to live in such a volatile world, always on guard. OMG! We have to kindly understand that we must reform our systems to make it work for us and not adopt more and more of combative behaviors.

Another huge one is the shift of powers between men and women. Our men despite  logically expressing their compassion, wanting to cooperate, to make the world a better place for all genders, are acting upset in all walks of life. This too goes back to humanity automatically resisting/opposing change. Just look at our history! Great innovations were battled and denied and people who introduced them were initially prosecuted just to stand our ground in our wrong belief systems.

Sure, men have gotten away all these years with being adored and being given powers to run like a bull into the china shop, not really thinking that these damaging behaviors have a ripple effect throughout their immediate communities and society in large. Despite the light that has been shined on these ugly  behaviors through recent uproars, we are, however, collectively at fault. Because we allowed these behaviors for years to manifest and now it is a second nature to them. Logic wants them to cooperate, but learned belief systems will motivate them to fight changes with all their powers. As a Life Coach, I know reform/change of deeply embedded conditioning is a lot of work. Yet only hard work can and will lead to success.

Embracing change, that includes the shift of powers, is the only way to ensure our continuance. My biggest wish/dream is that we all one day soon are able to grow/evolve on that fact. I did and can testify that it is liberating to embrace change. The wisdom of Taoism, a Chinese religion, tells us that we must learn to be flexible in life in order to flow with the needs of our times. Remember change is inevitable!

Love and Blessings ❤️

Ideas Worth Igniting

Since I have had such a twisted life journey with many ups and downs and stories to teach others the shortcuts I learned/gathered on hard ways to prevent years of failures for others and more importantly expedite their bliss, I have so many times been advised to write a book. Experts and all our wanna be teachers/mentors/coaches have told me that if I don’t at least have a chapter [tangible], then I will not ever be able to establish myself as an artist, writer, a producer, entertainer, and more importantly a teacher. If I would rely on our leaders who teach us the standards to follow in order to ever succeed, I would have faltered many years ago and given up even attempting anything in life with my lame ass start points. So the warrior that I am, I always went against the grains [preached standards] to achieve anything in life. Following set standards in my opinion lack innovations and they are unfitting/unspoken rules and regulations just brain washing us. Pure corrupt as they are misleading. We don’t even notice when we prosecute someone mentally [passive aggressively] when they don’t meet the standards. This includes ourselves even. Set standards don’t even work and confuse the shit out of most of us. I continued to tell myself that “not me”. I never wanted to play that stupid game. So naturally I was always enticed by the creativity and unity United States provided as they seemed at least somewhat more advanced and civilized compared to the rest. What an opportunity! Americans at least offered some artistic creativity and humanity that I allowed me to believe that dreams are possible as I could with all my heart resonate with at least with that logic and learn from. I have lived with my husband in Arizona for 25+ years. During these time we have learned so much!! Looking back it’s been adventure to share. These are blessings one should be grateful for. Now I am ready to pass it on to others who care to follow.

Back to elaborating on the book and chapter idea. Yes, I do have tons of stories that would make many great books. However, the more I think about the idea of lengthy books, the more I know that they are not the most effective methods of teaching in today’s world. The information overload indeed has shorten our thinking span. We are trained to entertain ourselves and books too feed into that culture. A culture of mindlessly entertaining people to just make dollars! Having said that since our standards are not very innovative and are obviously challenging our existence, it’s clear that we must simplify. Just look at the staggering social issues we collectively are experiencing now a days. It doesn’t have to transpire that way! Since I loved and still love shortcuts, I embarked on learning them and United States offered a superior background. Thanks to my lazy Persian attitude too that supported my love for finding shortcuts, another proof that we must learn to harvest [embrace] all our little perceived flaws [are they really!?], I learned that we can succeed with the right strategies. Honestly, I now know! In my opinion blogs and entertainment as well as revamping of our standards to match today’s needs are the most important things representing our future that we must start with. If I ever had the character or would have forced myself to adopt/follow standards, it would have been easier for someone like me to have established myself. But the truth is that I always had a greater interest in mind. Thereof I have fought all my life to remain independent from corrupted standards that condition us to be and act shady in life. I despise that and know that there are so many of us who do that as well. Yet our belief system keeps our good hearts back from attempting to break the rules. Thereof we self-sabotage ourselves and cause damage to the greater good. Let’s steer the ship into the right path to fulfill our dreams!

Here are some ideas on how to:


  • Production of an inspirational documentary movie to re-awaken faith and spirituality in mankind. We need to believe again to achieve unity.


  • Revamp educational material to reprogram next generations correctly to prevent future messes.


  • Work on educating our communities to heal.

These are easier said then done. Yet I know through years of hard experiences and wisdom now that they are possible if we collectively innovate the wheels again. Let us learn from the Chinese people and so many admirable humans who have paved the way and shown us again and again, now and in the history, that with the right attitude and all our resources, we can do it.

I believe in the Power of People! If you agree and would like to see someone starting a movement, please pledge your economic support by donating below.

Love and Blessings ❤️


Standard vs. Uniqueness


From experience I can testify that repelling uniqueness or differences is part of the Western culture and in general part of humanity. I was a foreigner in Germany for 10 years and now have lived in United States for 25+ years as a Persian. In Germany I would be assumed to be a Turk as Turkish people were allowed to migrate to that country as laborers after WWII to help rebuild the country and in the States, specially in Southwest, people assume I am Mexican or a Native Indian. Due to having experienced the [ugly] treatments most Westerner extend to these groups, I know that repelling anything that differs from expected standards is the norm within these societies. Simultaneously, I have been exposed to my own culture discriminatory behaviors as well. So naturally I have seen how we tend to repel anything that differs from our programmed belief system. However, it has been utmost harsh! As a privileged Persian who would have been brought up within my groups, I would have never experienced these kind of unjust behaviors existing within our societies/cultures. So I would have used/misused my powers to bully the lesser privileged groups.

We can beat our programmed belief systems. I lucked out by isolating and experiencing life differently so I can report to you that if we fail to control the natural course of our thinking pattern that is motivated by a false belief system [programmed], we will fail to ever see unity! Why? Isn’t that pretty obvious!? Our environments have changed drastically ever since the internet. We now are aware of much more than our brains are capable of handling. Globalization has caused many clashes among the various groups that we previously were unaware of. Because of our inability to process all that information, being mislead and slipping into the wrong path due to our faulty believe systems is easily doable by those who can play us. That is disastrous! Clashes of opinions are not be feared as only exchanging in a healthy manner will propel us as humanity ahead.

There are so many examples to cite to point out a few related issues presently playing mind games with all of us. An example, Opiate Addiction Epidemic is on the rise because the differences that are challenging our learned/programmed standards ARE above average. These discrepancies are leading to massive stress and depressions. Regretfully a society that is money motivated and has learned to remain focused on money, can easily be corrupted by its leaders that we rely on. So we go to our doctors who we believe are the experts [leaders] we can trust. Yet our doctors are motivated to make a living. Pharmaceutical companies send out account managers who are charming and enticing. They tell our doctors that the more they prescribe of their medications [recorded & reported by pharmacies], the more prestige and money they will receive. At times we run into good people who will never partake in such a corrupt system, yet can one trust blindly? He or she might be just selling you in such a cunning manner that you will never know. Or they too might have been convinced that their learned conventional education is the only way to address issues!? I have been there. In 2015, I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. The neurologist who I was told to see, scared me to death by insisting that I must start pharmaceutical treatments as soon as possible to prevent future relapses. He cheerfully expressed that he had my best interest in mind with his serious recommendations. Since I had worked for a pharmaceutical corporation and knew how the system works, despite initially loosing it, I went into research. Not even one week passed by till I was being bombarded with calls from a prominent pharmaceutical company specializing in MS patients. I talked to a very kind concierge nurse exclusive assigned to me to support me. I felt special and a sense of calmness, believing that she truly cared for me. But in my research I found out why she was motivated to do this. Not to say that she personally lacked compassion, the truth, however, remains that she was an employee of a pharmaceutical company who has been advised to execute her job professionally. Not to dismiss that people lack sincerity but maybe it was just a presented show to comply with her duties!? Come to find out, I would have been a 100k client annually to them. Of course they will assign a concierge nurse [customer service representative] who probably handles so many more 100k patients for her company.

The worse thing is that if I had opted to listen to my doc blindly, I would have been hooked on depression medications and who knows what else to manage the side affects of the MS drug. An official patient in the system to generate money. In general, any medical problem should not immediately be combated with medication, including depression However, standards compel us to rely on this false belief system that has been ingrained [programmed] into us.

To make a long story short, I even went back a year later, thinking that my good health and weight-loss achieved would convince my doc to adopt kinder and gentler ways of treatments that he could advocate to his other MS patients. He actually arrogantly repelled and dismissed me as I did not provide the relationship that he had accepted mentally. Either his doings were due to true arrogance, cause how dare me to challenge his gained years of expertise, or he was truly corrupted and only interested in working with people that supply to his motives without questioning his authority. Regardless of his reasons, I could care less as I am grateful I relied on my own wisdom handling the situation that had such a profound effect on my well-being. The point is always take into consideration your own well-being and do not allow anyone to mislead you, either knowingly nor unknowingly.

We must acknowledge that our inability to consolidate our differences to co-exist in this global world,  causes damages to ourselves and the society in large. Because we unknowingly [automatically] engage in combating/conflicting behaviors just to justify our world to our set standards. If you pay attention, you will notice that battling differences in this world is lately the standards that’s why shit is hitting the fan.  It happens between genders, left and rights, ethnics, religious groups, country, and on and one and on. Gosh people defend their opinions, belief systems, teams, groups, and everything will all their powers with zero regards to a greater good. These behaviors are automated in compliance with our natural tendencies to behave like animals rather than cultured and controlled. That’s why we as humans have been chosen to be the top of the animal kingdom. Engaging in any uncontrolled behaviors will destroy our resources including us self. In order to store harmony and recreate unity in all realms of life, small and large, we must learn to embrace differences. How to do that when there is so much complexity confusing messages, injustice, and the never ending problems among all the different groups and in the world? It can be difficult at times to navigate through all that is transpiring around us and it’s easy to crawl back into our known belief systems [standards] to hide and numb ourselves. But don’t give up as there is a methodical way out. Yes, it is lots of work. But so worth the peace the harmony of your mind lends. How have I reached such a state of mind? Despite wanting to give up trying, I continued to remain objective in life, always sought the truth despite its ugliness at times, stayed focused on what has been enhancing my life, and acted out of kindness with the knowledge I was exposed to and the powers I was given. Many times my persona has been misjudged due to handling things myself as well as issues differently, against the set standards. However, I have continued to successfully exist in such a manner and can confidently tell you that it is the only way of moving forward in this environment. May the fittest survive is one of our universal laws that we must abide by to prevail. Norms and standards as expected are being challenged in today’s world. Only learning to embrace our differences and remain aware of the truth to control issues is our solution to heal as a global society. Together we can heal and better manage our resources to unit. It starts within and must entail adopting co-existence strategies. Learning to embrace our differences [be it internal or external] is the only way to overcome chaos/disaster to restore peace, harmony and unity. Do it!

Love and Blessings ❤️


Seed of Hope

seed of hope

Never ever forget that planting a seed in any area of your life that matters to you requires hope. Hope includes trust and believe, as we are nothing in this wide universe. Scary and dis-empowering thoughts that drive one to feel crazy, disconnected, damaged, hopeless, to be forced into adopting corruption, believing it to be the only way of existence. Drove me nuts and still does at times! Practice, however, makes the master. So naturally I am getting better at managing myself. We have the choice. I now know/feel that divine powers do exist. We are born on a day and die someday. What we do while we are journeying matters. Every single interaction, thoughts, reactions, sayings, doings translate into energies. That’s a powerful spiritual wisdom that must be adopted and practiced if we want to succeed. One has always the opportunity to start from NOW. To possibly succeed in life, the first step is that we must believe, know that planting a seed is next, and of course cautiously nourish it in hopes of it doing well and resulting in something worth to be proud of someday. We have done it and we can do it again. It was with that hope that anybody accomplished anything good in life. Just witness and actively partake in your environment rather than shying away. It is our only hopeful way of continuance. It is not guaranteed. However, only doing good could result in good.

The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Lao Tzu


Anne Frank wrote in her famous diary, “How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.”

Do not be fooled by advertisement nor media nor intimidated by power craving individuals nor by your own demons that continue to deny the existence of divine powers nor voices that keep you captivated/imprisoned/limited in your world. Remain focused on your mission. Hope does exist and so do all our blessings. That’s not a delusion. However, one must dare to tackle all and any areas/characters in life to have any chance of progression. Don’t be afraid of consequences. As we know only taking risks will force growth and progress but we must speak the truth with love or tough love that could result in a positive outcome. But do believe as divine powers that are wanting us all to succeed exist. You can tell if you pay attention. Know that only the truth will heal you.

To plant any seed, you must believe and trust first. Trick your mind. It can be done as I can testify that it works. What are the actions that have always helped me are to view all and any interaction, circumstances, or situation with love and compassion. I know it won’t work immediately. However, it will eventually if you insist on tricking your mind and heart to always have good intentions, act in love, starting now. If you want to ever accomplish anything in life, believe, develop hope, plant your seeds, deeply appreciate and respect the laws of nature which are love and now. I promise you will always succeed as a guiltless mind sets you free. Know always that your sayings, doings, actions or reactions must be in alignment with love and now, not assumptions based on one’s believe and not in the past. You may dream of a brighter future. It is the seed of hope. Aim for it.

In contrary to my believe system thus far, I was not a fan of organized religion. However, how stupid of me to think that I am the mighty one who is the sole driver of my life. The truth is that we must encompass all resources, including us as well as all other blessings to try. To reach, believe and trust that Divine Powers do exist and want us all to do well. Thereof, we must look at all our resources to piece this puzzle as best as possible together.

Believe in Divine Powers, proceed with love and from now, identify your blessings.

You will be all set to experience bliss if you start with these simple steps. why? Because knowing that a greater divine power is guiding one is the most comforting feeling ever. It is the first step in removing the hate and skeptical viewpoints that are interfering with our greatness. It has given us all that we need to do well. Let’s do it to prevent further resentments.

For those of us who presently are believers of one divine power, here is a message from Pope Francis broadcasted on Ted in April 2017. Everybody is pleading for salvage. Please listen.

I truly appreciate his wisdom and gladly adopt while all logic tells us that we can only progress as a unit and conquer all ugliness with our attitude. That happens in every single moment and start with us. Act out of love and you/we will be loved. Lack of it leads to despair and ugliness and will destroy you/us.

Be part of a change and donate to this cause.

Love and Blessings ❤️


Now or Never!

earth angelNow or never is the divine warning to all of us! We have all the resources to be great again yet we have allowed ourselves to walk the wrong path. Why? As it is absolutely not needed. Yes, it is lots of work to turn our ship around, but healing starts with a small step. To heal the world, heal thyself first. And know that the journey is fun and rewarding. Dare to and just mimic all others who have accomplished true happiness. I know that we can do it cause I did it. How to? It is a lengthy process. However, it can be expedited only if you could stop denying facts, that we have all the resources to be great. Who am I to deliver such a profound, life changing message? Well, apparently we are going through a paradigm shift on earth and seem like I am part of it. Listen to Harry Styler’s song “Sign of the Times”:

It’s been leery and ominous, to say the least. But I am done playing small as all the signs lead to a logical explanation for my existence. I am a true teacher, a writer, and a life scholar who cares about you and us. I want us all to do well. Within these past few weeks, it has unraveled that I am one to organize the facts/resources so that we all can propel together. I believe we all want that. The 1st thing that must stop in order for us to start healing is to accept that we only can live up to our potential within this animal kingdom. And no! you cannot be anything you want to be if you lack the potential which is a law of animal kingdom hierarchy. Accept, stop being jealous, trying to outdo those above you. That’s the first thing. Believe in all existing powers as well as good and bad energies and the truth that if we don’t pay attention to what we need to, then we will be misled/misguided and suffer. We all know how that feels like as we are all hurt children who want to be loved. Watch Pink’s video, called “What About Us”:

I truly had no option than to believe and develop faith in our Universe after getting the messages loud and clear. But honestly, I wasn’t even a believer, to begin with. That fact confirms that there is no way I could have been brainwashed to blindly believe, in other words, I cannot be delusional. Impossible! The next step is to do right, always and in any situation or interactions. Please do not engage in mindless entertainment that allows the top to lead us like marionettes. Look where we are at because we have been trained to focus on just passing the presented bridge and pretend to be happy. We are not. A sample is the hurricane Harvey. We have been warned that climate change will devastate our habitat. Yet we failed to prevent and we engage in helping now to feel worthy and humble about ourselves momentarily. Enough already. There is still time to prevent future disasters. Failing to plan is the same as planning to fail. The other day I watched the news and observed all the kindness and that all of us wanting to help, which is honorable. Yet, what the fuck! That’s the most stupid mistake ever. We need to address as soon as a problem arises and not let it go to shit! Makes me furious and sad.

Wrong is too that we continue to tolerate wrongs to prevent shaking things up or change the status quo. A pretty obvious present situation is that we continue to tolerate that idiot president’s behaviors while he continues to endanger us/the world due to wanting to entertain and enrich himself. We have allowed him to because we are busy running our routine life’s, convinced we are powerless to force any changes while some run the show. We can do better.

What about gun control? In today’s dangerous world with lots of mental patients running around we continue to argue that the 2nd amendment is still relevant. Not really! We need to wake up before the damage infests and permanently damages. A big sample is as our present opioid epidemic. There are things that are black and white. Stop arguing right and wrong. The sooner you accept, the faster you get to where you can go. Live in now and do your best. Please manage all presented risks at all times to prevent future disasters and take the right steps to ensure harmony, peace, and love.

Another fundamental shift that must happen is that our men must stop behaving like hotshots and predators, falsely following sex and money and power, pretending to be kind with animals or children or their significant others or mothers and friends just to appeal sexually or misuse a woman’s biological tendencies/vulnerabilities to seek love and affection. All of these are signs of seeking to deceive or manipulate. These kind of behaviors will upset and send the wrong messages. That women must and need to compete with one another for men’s attention or play other games. What that will do is to dis-harmonize and cause unnecessary conflicts and corruption resulting in damaging outcomes. The value of a strong family is our only way of continuance. But nowadays we are conditioned to compete, be corrupted, censor, pretend, and/or be manipulative. These are our flaws. Terrible! That must change. Accept that our women have more powers. Utilize them and be more efficient. Any behaviors in contrary to the laws of our Universe will damage our environment. To achieve peace and prosperity, aim to heal. Isn’t that what it should be all about?

Another fact observed is that so many men are not able to compete in today’s world due to not meeting the set standards to achieve happiness and bliss. Many are assessed as too weak, categorized, or expelled. These minorities either resort to convert into the opposite gender or choose to be homosexuals or suicidal or mental or depressed. More terrible conditionings that we partake in because we categorize everyone based on our own false values embedded deeply in our blueprints. What are we unknowingly doing?  Just because someone is different, you should not judge by a superficial evaluation and thereof dismiss. Misjudging/misassessing is not only ugly, it is a possible lost opportunity. Additionally, you are conditioning someone with your passive aggressive, subliminal messages. So do not be afraid of dialogue as it makes us grow nor be afraid of following all methods to aim for greatness. Here is one published method on how to update your blueprint:

In contrary to all that is being preached presently, censorship, pretentiousness, consumption, and mindless entertainments are indeed habits of feeble minded people who are lead. If you want to propel and ever experience bliss, then drop these flaws. These behaviors have sickened our society and are the culprit of all our sufferings. We can do better together if we put our minds to it. That’s why forming the right team is so important to gather the support system that empowers.

In this piece, I am including a video that talks of a Bethlehem star and the 12 signs that correlate with our science that confirm our present shift. So excited for our generation to be part of it.

After having watched a few videos, as the one above, and connecting the dots of all that has transpired in my life, I now am a believer.  I have achieved self healing and am eager to teach you too the how to’s so that you may save yourself as well. Our greats are indeed drumming these messages in many forms and shapes ever since our existence. I continue discovering them. So can you. We humans can be beautiful if we choose too and there are lots of beautiful things on this earth to enjoy, including man’s creations that include music to movies to medical advancement to technology to art to history and the list goes on and on. Manage and preserve us. Do it!

Love and Blessings ❤️


Adversity Deepens & Beautifies

It is the truth! We all get pissed off once life gets to be too complex. Yet it is learning to navigate all its transpired circumstances. Do it with poise and grace and learn your lessons to break through. Beside of feeling proud of yourself, figuring out how to solve issues, truly deepens and beautifies your soul and appreciation for life. I know it cause I used to bitch and moan at all that wasn’t right in my life. However, once I learned that circumstances are as they are and that it is my job to hash them out and/or attempt to solve them, did I seek to educate myself to make it. Another confirmation is almost everyone has a reaction to the new, changed me. I continued to be puzzled as to why. Now I know that it is the beauty of my soul. Both reactions were puzzling and disturbing at times. Truly challenging. I finally know, however, the answer. It is a repeated issue in our society that continues to interfere with our progress and greatness. As we know there are many greats out there who manage to do everything right. A prime example of our times is Oprah. We all wished we had a life like her but are unaware of how much tear and blood work it must have been and still is for her to make it and/or manage it. Yet we righteously have our opinions and reasons as to why good things don’t nor can or should happen to us. Yet the fact is those who rise, take on a lot of pain and work onto themselves and are deserving of that lifestyle.Work starts with you. You can shine, always. All of us have given gifts. Use them!

Adversities are opportunities to evolve and rise!

Those who choose to remain negative, resent their past, recognize their inability to reach up to their likings will either repel someone like Oprah who rubs it in their face or even cause conflicts to justify themselves. There are other conditions that lead to negative reactions. All of them are driven from behavioral limitations or impairments. However, endure the pain of leaving a less than successful tribe behind in pursuit of happiness. As much as it is painful, do not be enticed to remain in your charted territory as discovering uncharted land is so worth it. Remember that we all have what we need to succeed. And if you continue to fail, then you are not doing something right. Those who assess and judge you correctly will evolve with you to move on while all those who should not play a role in your life will fall out. I used to continue to fail because of my own assessments and judgements; All is a believe system that’s impairing you and life. Adopt one that enhances your life.

I know how painful it is but I always felt like growth is in pain and thereof I never ever shied away from challenges. The sooner you are up for the challenge of change, the sooner you will come to live your life to it fullest potential. Now I actually seek them out to expedite my progress.The bonus point is that the deepening of your soul, beautifies you [‘Beauty starts within’] and your life. Everyone would want that. So next time you face adversity, get curious as how it can be solved rather than find reasons to justify your limiting choices. It is life changing. Remember life is complex. Yet it is your job to find all that beautifies it.

Love and Blessings ❤️


Ideas Ignite!

Ideas Ignite

Within these past few years I have gone thru many transitions and have become aware of this fact. It is true.

Ideas Ignite!

How do I know so? Well, I transitioned from being overweight and unattractive to being normal weight, attractive, and more appreciative of my surroundings as well as all my blessings. As result my community has become quite competitive and wants to outdo me and thereof each individual within my immediate community is having a reaction. That’s awesome!!! Initially I was puzzled and hurt. Now, however, I see a pattern and regardless as why people are compelled to be better, I greatly take joy in it and at times even amuse myself.  As I have painfully learned, it’s all in how one evaluates all that transpires. So I chose to change my perspective. Instead of viewing it as negative, I chose to view and feel it as positive. It’s liberating. Try it 📌

Having identified that fact, try to be less reactive to people’s small jealousies and insecurities and appreciate the positive you set in motion as being a role model to your community by loving and standing up for yourself. That idea will catch on and ignite eventually. Change can be so painful yet so worth it. Dare to do it.

As usual…

Love and Blessings ❤️


Gratitude Opportunities

The past few weeks have been even further more revealing and saddening. I have been toying with the idea on how to express these events in writing as another phase of my life that’s transpiring presently. Again because they are ironic, quite emotional, and carry lots of lessons to share. But words never properly would form in my head. So I decided to act and start writing them anyhow to let the stories tell themselves. If I am a writer, creative, a teacher, and an entertainer as I claim to be, words will paint the pictures to entertain and educate.


The events and outcomes that have transpired over the past few days are very much in alignment with my missions in life; Entertain and educate to spread love. These are gratitude opportunities that must be acknowledged. Also a validation of my respect for myself. Even if I get 0 audience, reading my previous posts make me fall more in love with myself. Which is another great tool that I swear by. Love and accept yourself. Be authentic. All of these are great concepts that can boost your confidence and increase your value to yourself and others.

Seems like all these events are happening ever since my looks and thinking patterns have changed. [to read how, read My Story] Which is OK by me. But truly sad and faltering. I, at times, despair because of too much ugliness.  It’s hard to remain optimistic and pull yourself out of those modes at times. It feels fake to be positive when all is negative and there are no hopes/encouragements around you. You have to be grateful if you remain clear and survive. What has helped me, is educating myself. Training my brain. I personally am very grateful for living at this digital age. It gives me access to a lot of good resources that I can learn from. So always train your brain! Know that these experiences, however, uber emotionally charged and tense they are, they carry at least one lesson if not more. Look forward to discover the value(s) that you are going to gain because you survived another battle. It’s beautiful.

I am happy I am strong enough to sustain them by myself. And I do have to say that universe has gifted me with many blessings. One of them is a very strong woman in my neighborhood. She is 86, has experienced much in life, and is such a positive woman to look up to, in short. There are tons of interesting stories she has to tell. I do hope she gets to write her stories while it is possible. It’s a privilege to be able to talk to this power source and have her love and support. I greatly appreciate that. I water aerobic almost daily with her in the morning. The pool is right in front of the door. The house has been another blessing that I have had in life. If I didn’t have my domain to fall onto, I would have fallen in life and totally would have lost it big. But my house and my environment that I have worked for very hard to establish, strengthens and sustains me. Someday I will publish a post with pictures and stories of this magical place. It definitely carries Feng Shui powers. All of these blessings in life. However, know that it takes tons of hard work, strong faith [mine comes from spirituality, another chapter that I plan to share later], patient, persistent, optimism, the desire to want something from the bottom of my heart despite all that tried to divert me, and the imagination that I can do it.  Even if not, isn’t more fun and exciting to pursue something or complete a project? Have fun! However, I am confident I will make it as I have always succeeded by very patiently and slowly adding the right tools and adapting the right attitude to propel.Where there is a will, there is a way. It excites me to think that there can be even brighter light at the end of the tunnel. What a great blessing that is. So many people around our globe will sadly never have that opportunity. Learn from failures, move on, and do it better the next time. I have been so often in situations that I consider major failures. But all of them equipped me with valuable lessons that made me know who I am, what I want or not, and how to proceed next.

I broke off with 2 of my oldest friends. We had known each other for18 years. Why? Because I assessed them as not being true friends anymore. They are also not people that I would like to hangout with. That simple. They knew that I have been wanting to be a writer and never offered any feedback on my projects. Additionally they continued declining collaboration on any projects or events that I suggested.

One of them claims that she is short on money. She loves making edible goodies with chocolates. I suggested that I can put together a website for her so that she can start selling her stuff. And since I am strong with decorative pieces that we eventually could sell together. She never reacted to that.

The last decline set me off. Enough was enough. She has been complaining on not having a man in her life to share things with. Since I am interested in networking to find investors for my project and/or seek to learn of new strategies on how to advance it, I asked her if she wanted to go to a local networking event together. It would have been a win-win situation for her and me. Lots of professional men were expected to be there. She simply declined and wished me vaguely good luck. I had asked her last month too. She excused herself by needing to go to gym. However, said that she always wanted to go for an happy hour to that hip bar in Phoenix. She said that if I would let her know next month for at least a week in advance, she would plan for it. Turned out that was an empty statement. Yes, I could have told myself something positive to continue our friendship. But what for?

The other friend went into freelance publishing business after her autoimmune disease diagnosis. Since my background was graphic design and I always have been entrepreneurial, I suggested that we setup a business together. She declined. Because she excuses herself with her Catholic belief. Our paths don’t mix she thinks. However, I truly have been professional thus far. No lie, I dislike organized religion. Love, faith, and spirituality, however, are awesome! How can one not appreciate those qualities in mankind or any institution? I respect that they have it and share it among their members. Wish I could be so blessed. However, it’s not in me to pretend I believe in certain things just to harvest the love and warmth of that community. Deceiving! Besides, it’s in me to always see the glass half full and appreciate the goodness in any situation. I believe that I always presented myself as such a person. If anyone has been offended, they misunderstood me. I always appreciate and love what’s good in you. The interaction that did it, where I thought enough is enough, is when she ignored my suggestion to go to a WordPress learning Meetup together to advance our skills. You see, after I had told her that I had started a blog, she wrote that she too was about to start a blog and will share details with me later. So I got excited for her. Thinking to myself, wow, what are the odds that one of my oldest friends is going to be engaged in the same activities as I am. Finally we will be able to collaborate on something together. I tried but never could do anything more!

All these years they both knew that I have been seeking closeness and friendship, but they never invited me into any of their circles such as July 4th camping, Thanksgiving dinners, card games, movie nights, family get-togethers and more. All I was good for is to be seen every 2 months for 2 hours for meals and superficial talks. I could no longer do that without them wanting to grow and develop with me. It was getting boring. I do have to say that both did offer some goodness. But I strongly believe that I always have lowered my expectations in life to see the glass half full. Any other friend at that time would have given me a birthday gift or attended my citizenship ceremony and things in that nature. I appreciated them. However, nothing extraordinary. No jumping through hoops to make my life better. As I had said in a previous post, have a friend for the sake of having a friend. Someone who matches your expectations.

Another interaction that was quite disappointing yet a valuable lesson was my interaction with this guy whom with I had a strong connection with. Long story short, my husband and I have decided that we are separating for reasons that I will not elaborate on at this time. That itself is a story to be told and I look forward to that article. I am grateful, however, that him and I have come to the conclusion to peacefully separate to hopefully begin our next exciting chapter in life. So naturally I am open to meet my one and only. So this guy attracted me cause he sounded nice and after looking at his LinkedIn profile, I wanted to get to know him more. Him and I talked during my customer service job. He, however, despite feeling the connection, looked at my blog site and specifically the characteristic page and decided that we are not a match. Respectable. I honor that. And am happy that I have established a tool that quickly tells prospects who I am. That way we are not wasting time to get to know each other during a lengthy process only to identify that we don’t like each other. Perfect tool for me. As it quickly eliminates unfitting people. However, what was disappointing is that this guy looks at all details on my site and only picks out what he doesn’t like about me to point out. That was a sad moment. And he also tried to infer fears in me and/or bully me before he ceases communication. Fear because he is a network security guy and thinks that revealing one’s personality publicly is dangerous. He also insinuated that my picture is sexually suggestive as I have my hands behind my head on my LinkedIn image. After a few hours of toying with the idea of taking my site down and hide, I chose to laugh.  Because I have faith and believe that this is a positive outcome. Let unfitting people fall away fast. Besides I have nothing to hide. How can I become a famous writer/storyteller if I am afraid to publicize my life stories and hide who I am? No fears, as I too would like to be an entertainer and a teacher through my stories. Like so many other bloggers who have accomplished living a successful and an abundant life in the eyes of public, I too will dare. So why not me?  There! Plus point is that this guy confirmed that I am sexy. Which woman doesn’t like to hear that? Especially someone like me who wants to succeed in the public eyes. That’s how you can always see the positive in everything.

Valuable lessons of these events and interactions are: 

  • Get to know yourself as best as you can.
  • Honor your values. Refrain from compromising your values to please a community. If you are strong and you’re in the zone, your community too will benefit.
  • Love/respect yourself and ALL will love/respect YOU.
  • Know what you’re looking for. The more specific you are, the smaller the haystack  gets. You will find your needle.
  • Drop fears and dare to plunge. What do you have to lose? It will be fun and you might succeed, trying. All my gains have come about when I dared in life. Do it. You can!

Peace and Blessings❤️




Reinvention Magic

I just noticed that the start of this blog set the magic free. It was June 2015 that I was diagnosed with my MS condition. This blog started beginning of 2015. I started because I had read somewhere that daily gratitude can change your life.

My story kinda confirms that there is some truth to that. I, as many of you, had a new year resolution. To reinvent my life and myself. Once again! Don’t we all do that yearly? Since all intelligent people practice attitude of gratitude, I decided to mimic. This blog was started since I always loved talking and writing and gathering nice pictures. Finding out secrets of happiness suited for me is a fun activity. I am sure many can related. Maybe there is something to that saying “Follow your heart, find your bliss!” So finally I did or at least attempted to. I cannot help it for loving to write of my internal world which is designing or composing a fun, beautiful, and luxurious life. All that I have picked, chosen, and done in life thus far has continued to elevate my status ever since my childhood. Why would I not want to continue? Yes, it did takes lots of sweat and blood and unbelievable patient. Not every men’s job. To endure so much pain. Yet, I have tons of stories to tell. Exciting! I only hope that it will continue to prosper into even more excitement. This time around please with less pain, sweat, blood, and endurance. Now that I think back everything has happened for a reason. It’s liberating to finally have the guts to do what’s needed to reinvent myself. The power is indeed in all of us. It’s just the mind that decides one path over the other. Train your brain! You can do it!

Magic Book

What Magic? Ever since I started this blog, the needed resources and/or circumstances have started to appear in my life. These are indeed propelling me to follow my guts.

The bottom line is: Start being grateful, train your brain, and be kind. And see the magic unfold in your life.

Peace and blessings ❤️